Have you ever noticed the vibrational frequencies or vibes you or others emit? This is a form of communication, where our positive or negative energy frequencies communicate emotions and states of being to others, without words. Have you noticed you can sense someone’s feelings based on the frequency with which they operate? This is not usually conscious but a hidden form of communication.
All of us have an energy field.
When I walk into a meeting, a family gathering, or my home, I bring and experience an aura around me. Instead of acting on the vibes I desire to experience, I can easily adapt to the vibes I walk into.
Good vibes create an environment of joy, peace, relaxation, comfort, and connection. These vibes are easy to meld into. It is the kind of experience where smiles and laughter exist. I call this attractive and desirable. It is a place to look forward to joining, a warm ray of sunshine on a cold, cloudy day where my spirits are lifted regardless of my vibes.
Negative vibes evoke discomfort, uneasiness, fear, disconnection, and unhappiness. They produce an aura that is unpleasant, unattractive, and uninviting. They emit tense, gloomy vibes that cause one to want to avoid the experience.
Then there are the neutral vibes I experience during peaceful routines or matter-of-fact situations. This is the get-down-to-business aura that neither thwarts nor uplifts my spirits yet can produce calmness and productivity.
It is emotionally mature to recognize my vibes and the vibes I enter into. If I can realize my vibes and know which of the categories mentioned above I am operating from, I am equipped to be in charge of myself. Being in charge allows me to survey the vibes I encounter in various settings.
I choose to bring good vibes to the party. If I am not in a place to do that, I should announce it and maintain an attractive self.
How about you? Do you recognize your vibes and read the vibes of others correctly?
Watch for the blind spots.
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