Blind Spot to Breakthrough

Blind spots are the behaviors we don’t see that quietly work against us. They are not flaws, sins, or character defects; they are unconscious habits that create unintended consequences.

Everyone has blind spots, even healthy, intelligent, and loving people.

The real danger is not the blind spot itself but its invisibility. You can’t fix what you can’t see, and you can’t improve what you don’t recognize. Often, others notice our blind spots long before we ever do.

These unseen patterns show up in many ways: needing to be right, overexplaining, fixing instead of listening, interrupting, using sarcasm that feels like humor, asking “why” questions that land as accusations, poor boundaries, avoidance disguised as peacekeeping, convincing instead of connecting, and talking at people instead of with them.

Left unexamined, blind spots corrode relationships.

They create misunderstandings, frustrate the people we care about, and slowly build emotional distance without any intention to harm.

The cure is not shame, it is awareness. When someone points out a blind spot, it isn’t an attack; it’s a gift. It reveals what has been quietly sabotaging the connection and offers an opportunity to grow. Real change begins with honest questions: What is it like to be on the other side of me? What do I do that pushes people away? What am I missing about my impact? 

They are gold mines, if you’re willing to dig.

Watch for the blind spots.

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