Are You Listening?
Poor communication is one of the most common and costly blind spots in relationships. Too often, I don’t see the habits that get in my own way. I may interrupt, tell “hero” stories to prove a point, talk too much, or listen only to respond instead of to understand. These behaviors may feel normal to me, yet they quietly push others away. Many won’t tell me I’ve been dismissive, self-centered, or offensive. They will withdraw. Ouch, that’s a blind spot. Being an effective co
Jerry Clark
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What I Don’t Know Hurts US
What are blind spots in relationships? They're the things I don't know I don't know about myself, such as habits, reactions, or...
Jerry Clark
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Change is inevitable. Growth is intentional.
Life never stands still. Circumstances shift, people evolve, and every relationship I hold is touched by change. But growth, real,...
Jerry Clark
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Comfort Is the Enemy of Progress
Comfort feels good, safe, familiar, and predictable. But stay there too long, and comfort quietly trades progress for ease. P.T. Barnum...
Jerry Clark
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If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes
I’ve noticed that when things aren’t going well, my first impulse is to hope someone else changes so that I can stay the same. But that...
Jerry Clark
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