I recently had to deliver some very disappointing news, which I don't enjoy doing even when I approach it with compassion. I fixate on the possibility of conflict and struggle to envision how things might feel once the conversation ends.
Too often, I stare into a negative future, anticipating an outcome I desperately want to avoid. It feels overwhelming, like a vast shadow obscures my ability to see beyond it. The sheer weight of the approaching problem, a talk, a test, a tough work situation, or a difficult relational issue can make imagining life on the other side seem impossible.
In these moments, I spiral into doubt, fear, and frustration. My mind clings to the "what-ifs" and worst-case scenarios, amplifying the pressure. I resist the breakdown, viewing it as a sign of failure rather than a step toward growth. But over time, I've realized that these breakdowns are not the end of the story. They are, in fact, the beginning of something transformative.
Every breakdown is an invitation, a harsh, unkind one sometimes, but still an invitation to a breakthrough. When I hit a low point, when the discomfort becomes too much to bear, I am forced to look inward. In that space of vulnerability, I discover truths about myself: patterns that no longer serve me, beliefs that hold me back, and the resilience I didn't know I had.
For instance, facing a difficult conversation with a colleague once seemed insurmountable. I avoided it until the tension became unrelenting. But the moment I leaned into the discomfort and spoke my truth, I found clarity and strength. That breakthrough reshaped how I handle conflict.
Breakdowns strip away my comfort zones, leaving me exposed but ready for change. On the other side of every breakdown is an opportunity to grow, learn, and rebuild with new awareness. It's never easy, but the reward is undeniable: a stronger, wiser version of myself.
How about you? When the breakdown comes, do you see it as the end, or is it a bridge to a breakthrough waiting to happen?
Watch for the blind spots.
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