People often say, "I tell them repeatedly, and they still don't do what I ask." I've been guilty of this myself. I've found that the more I repeat myself, the less attention I get, and the more it feels like I'm being ignored.
For example, I get little response when I casually tell children to pick up their backpacks or stop whining. Similarly, my words go unnoticed if I keep telling my team, "We need to work together on this project," without clarity or authority. When these words are spoken with little or no authority, nothing happens. After the tenth time, I get loud and "go out of control to gain control." What an ineffective means of communication.
Have you ever noticed how a foggy mind can spread confusion? When I achieve personal clarity, it's like turning on a light in a dark room—everyone around me can see more clearly, too. Here's why getting clear myself can help align and focus my team, friends, and family.
I communicate more effectively when I clearly understand my wants, needs, values, and plans. This clarity in communication ensures that everyone understands the direction and objectives. It eliminates guesswork and prevents misunderstandings. Clarity also fosters confidence. I inspire confidence in others when I know what I want and how to get there. They trust my decisions and feel secure in following my lead.
My clarity sets a precedent. Those around me begin to value and seek clarity in their tasks and roles. This can lead to healthier, more open communication in personal relationships and drive productivity and innovation in professional settings.
My clarity acts like a ripple in a pond, spreading outwards and influencing those around me. My key is to be clear and assertive. Unsurprisingly, my words get ignored when my instructions are vague or lack conviction.
How about you? Are your requests or orders clear or confusing?
Watch for the blind spots.
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