I am constantly looking for ways to improve myself. Becoming a better version of myself means not only learning new skills and adopting better habits but also letting go of what holds me back. Growth requires shedding the thoughts, behaviors, and patterns that keep me stuck.
One of the biggest things I need to give up is the need for approval. For too long, I let other people’s opinions dictate my choices, seeking validation instead of trusting my instincts. But the more I listen to my voice, the freer I become.
Along with approval, I must also release comfort that leads to complacency. Comfort feels good, but when I settle in for too long, it dulls my ambition. Real growth requires stepping into discomfort, taking risks, trying new things, and pushing beyond what’s familiar.
Another thing I need to let go of is the fear of failure. I’ve spent years avoiding mistakes as if failure was something to be ashamed of. But failure isn’t the enemy, it proves I’m stretching myself. Every setback is a lesson, and every lesson moves me forward. Closely tied to this is self-doubt, that persistent inner voice whispering, “You’re not ready,” “You’re not enough.” For too long, doubt has kept me from fully stepping into my potential. It’s time to replace hesitation with belief.
I also need to release the stories that no longer serve me. I tell myself stories about who I am; some are empowering, and others are limiting. If I tell myself I’m “too old,” “not smart enough,” or “not capable,” I start living within those walls.
It’s time to rewrite my script.
And finally, I must let go of perfectionism. Waiting for the perfect moment, skill set, or condition is a trap that keeps me paralyzed. Growth happens through imperfect action, learning, and adjusting as I go.
Becoming a better me isn’t about adding more but subtracting what no longer serves me.
What must you let go of to step into your best self?
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