Idols or Inspiration

Every day, I am guilty of bowing down to modern-day idols, objects, habits, and ideals that promise fulfillment but often leave me emptier than before. Yet there’s a more powerful way forward. By modeling genuine human connection, I inspire others to invest in people rather than possessions.

Today, technology and social media have become modern idols. Success, achievement, degrees, promotions, and accolades can feel like trophies. Material possessions have seduced me into believing happiness comes from having “more.” And above all, I have sought validation and approval from friends, family, or bosses as confirmation of belonging.

The cost of worshipping idols is high. Anxiety and burnout follow when my pursuit of perfection and external affirmation turns rest into guilt and fuels stress. In my bid for approval, I have bartered authenticity for acceptance, shrinking the space for vulnerability and deepening only shallow relationships. When my decisions hinge on achievements or possessions, I risk losing sight of my core values, passions, and unique gifts. As a result, my emotional state becomes unstable, rising and falling with every notification, purchase, or accolade, eroding the steady self‑worth that comes from within.

In contrast to idolizing things, living as an example of genuine human connection invites others to follow. It starts with showing up fully—giving undivided attention, listening to understand, and celebrating small wins, whether it's a friend's creativity or a coworker's kindness—spotlighting community over competition. By being vulnerable first, admitting my struggles and seeking support, I permit others to do the same, strengthening bonds beyond surface‑level niceties.

So where am I investing my energy? Is it on things or people? When I realign my focus toward relationships, empathy, and shared experiences, I reclaim my worth by cultivating practices rooted in character and compassion. By dethroning material and external idols and living as a beacon of genuine connection, I liberate myself and inspire others to build lives rich in love, purpose, and belonging.

Watch for the blind spots.

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