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Jerry Clark

My Inner Circle




Looking back, my emotional immaturity in my younger years led me to gravitate toward people who accepted me rather than those who challenged me to grow. I didn't recognize my friends' influence on my choices and mindset. I wasn't spending time with the most ambitious or academically driven crowd. Instead, I settled for comfort and familiarity. I missed opportunities for personal growth and didn't develop much in my social, intellectual, or spiritual circles.

 

Through study and time, I've refined my approach to building emotional connections. Now, I seek out people I admire and look up to.

 

Jim Rohn's iconic quote, "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with," speaks volumes about the power of association. Essentially, it means that the people closest to me profoundly influence my thoughts, behaviors, and, ultimately, my success in life. Whether I realize it or not, I tend to absorb habits, attitudes, and beliefs from the people around me.

 

Think about it: if I'm surrounded by ambitious, optimistic people constantly striving for improvement, I'll naturally feel motivated to push myself. On the flip side, if my inner circle is negative or complacent, it can drag me down, making it harder to reach my goals. Rohn's message is a reminder to choose my circle wisely.

 

This quote isn't about ditching friends who might be struggling or having a tough time; it's about balance. I surround myself with people who inspire and challenge me, share similar values, and believe in growth. I now seek out mentors, friends, or colleagues who encourage me to level up.

 

By creating a positive, growth-focused circle, I'm not just changing who I spend time with; I'm changing who I am and who I am becoming. After all, my environment shapes me more than I realize.

 

As Jim Rohn wisely suggested, if you want to become the best version of yourself, start by being intentional with who you allow into your inner circle.

 

How about you? Do your five best friends challenge you to be your best?

 

Watch for the blind spots.

 




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Get a copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that could be holding you back from the relationships you desire. http://tinyurl.com/yc3usfsp

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