William Shakespeare - "All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, and one man in his time plays many parts."
Here are a few important roles we play in life. This is not an all-inclusive list, but it highlights some important ones. Parents, spouses, grandparents, siblings, friends, community leaders, caregivers, mentors, mentees, and Christians are but a few.
What do I want others to say about me in my various roles? It is a fascinating exercise to write down what I would like to hear essential people in my life say about me in any role I play. Be sure you take some time to write these down. These are descriptions you want to hear, not what you think they would say.
Words like loving, caring, mentor, giver, kind, resilient, intelligent, innovative, trustworthy, gracious, wise, authentic, and compassionate are but a few complementary words.
Now, here is the secret to the question. People in our lives will talk of their experience of us. In other words, I write the script others will use to talk about me. If I want great things said about me, I must show up great. Otherwise, others or I may hear words that are not so complementary to myself.
Yes, I write the script others use to talk about me.
In essence, the words others use to describe me offer valuable feedback on my life's journey. These words can catalyze reflection, prompting me to consider the alignment between my intentions and actions and the perceptions they create. This insight is vital for those interested in personal growth, improved relationships, and a fulfilling life. It's a reminder that while I may not control others' perceptions, I can influence them through my actions, choices, and the roles I embrace.
All the world is a stage. I am an actor on this stage. Even before the curtain falls, the audience will critique me. What do I want to hear them say?
What roles do you play, and what do you want the important people in your life to say?
Watch for the blind spots.
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