We are all influencers.

I find myself in a very interconnected world; the concept of influence has taken on new dimensions. Consciously or unconsciously, I act as an influencer through how I live my life. My actions, values, and decisions shape not only my paths but also the ones around me. I choose to influence for the good of others and to live with intention and integrity. When I lead by example, my behavior and attitude can inspire and uplift those around me. Acts of kindness, empathy, and generosity can create ripples that extend far beyond my immediate circles. When I invest time in positively guiding others, I foster personal growth and cultivate a culture of support and encouragement. By living in alignment with my values and contributing to the well-being of others, I can harness my influence to create a better world.

Conversely, I can influence in ways that exploit or magnify personal greatness. In a society driven by self-promotion and the pursuit of recognition, there’s a risk of using influence to serve my interests at the expense of others. This could manifest as prioritizing personal gain over collective well-being or influencing social platforms to project a grandiose image rather than a genuine self. When influence becomes a tool to fuel my pride, it often leads to a disconnect from the real needs and experiences of those around me, ultimately undermining authentic connections and trust.

I served as a Rotarian for many years. I will always remember the Four Way Test. It is a nonpartisan and nonsectarian ethical guide for Rotarian's to use for their personal and professional relationships.

I constantly reflect on the Four Way Test in the things I think, say, or do:

1. Is it the TRUTH?

   
   

2. Is it FAIR to all concerned?

   
   

3. Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?

   
   

4. Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?

   
   
   
   

These principles help me set aside my interests to focus on the greater good of those around me, creating an environment that fosters healthy connections.

We are all influencers.

How about you? Do you use your influence for the greater good of yourself or for others?

Watch for the blind spots.

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