When I Think

When I think I'm doing things right and I'm not, I'm dangerous. I recall instances where I thought I was doing the right thing, only to cause significant issues. One such example happened when I was a second-line manager. Due to my title, I assumed I knew best how employees should do their jobs. However, without hands-on experience, I was clueless and embarrassed by their superior knowledge.

Self-confidence can be a double-edged sword. Believing in myself and my abilities is crucial for personal growth and achievement, but when this confidence is misplaced, it can lead to unintended consequences. The danger lies in the gap between perceived and actual competence, where the belief that one is doing things right masks the reality of the situation.

For example, in the workplace, a person who believes they are making sound decisions but lacks the necessary knowledge or skills can cause projects to fail, resources to be wasted, and team morale to plummet. In relationships, misjudging one's actions and their impacts can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and broken trust.

When I think I'm doing things right but I'm not, I become a risk not only to myself but also to those around me. This overconfidence can manifest in various areas of life, from personal relationships to professional environments.

Cultivating humility and a willingness to seek feedback is essential to mitigate this danger. Acknowledging that no one is infallible and that there is always room for improvement can help bridge the gap between perception and reality. Seeking diverse perspectives and being open to constructive criticism allows for a more accurate self-assessment and helps make informed decisions.

My belief that I was doing things right when I was not led to a loss of confidence others had in me. This created a false sense of security, resulting in significant mistakes and harm. By fostering humility, seeking feedback, and committing to lifelong learning, I could have avoided the pitfalls of overconfidence and ensured that my actions aligned with my good intentions.

How about you? Is being right worth being dangerous?

Watch for the blind spots.

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