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Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, and forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:32

God’s grace is free and abundant. We pay no price, nor can we earn it. It is freely given.

Grace in relationships refers to extending kindness, forgiveness, and understanding to others, even when they may not deserve it. It involves approaching interactions with empathy and compassion and striving to maintain a positive and respectful demeanor, even in the face of conflict or disagreement.

My friends Ralph and Robin are as human as they come. They practice great things and suffer from their own mistakes, as we all do.

Both have been hurt by the other’s mistakes, choices, and failures. The beauty of their relationship is they are still extremely gracious to each other.

Just as God’s grace is unearned, Ralph and Robin apply this in their relationship. It is impressive when one shows the other grace, how the other wants to step up and show their love and appreciation in return. It has been my experience that the more couples lean on God, the more solid and healthy their relationship becomes.

When practicing grace in relationships, we strive to avoid judgment and criticism and instead aim to listen and understand the perspectives of others. We are willing to acknowledge our own faults and shortcomings and work to make amends when necessary.

Grace in relationships can profoundly impact the quality of our connections with others.

It can help foster trust, deepen emotional intimacy, and create a sense of mutual respect and admiration. It can also facilitate healthy conflict resolution and promote forgiveness and healing in times of strife.

Ultimately, practicing grace in relationships requires a willingness to prioritize the well-being of others and to approach interactions with kindness, compassion, and understanding. By doing so, we cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections with those around us and contribute to a more harmonious and peaceful relationship.

How are you showing grace?

I know it is something I can continue to work on. How about you?

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