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George was my mentor from 1996 until he passed away in December 2020. He was one of the most amazing men I have ever known. He was a Korean War veteran and was associated with Marriage and Family Therapy for over 55 years. George was a fantastic family man. His teaching and coaching about life and therapy were priceless. He was fair, honest, direct, knowledgeable, challenging, and kind. My life was rich because I had George as my friend and mentor. I could always depend on him for course correction or encouragement. Mentors are like guiding stars, offering direction, support, and wisdom to help us reach our destinations. A primary advantage of having a mentor is the wealth of experience and knowledge they bring to the table. They have been through ups and downs and overcome hurdles. Their insights are invaluable; they can steer us from common pitfalls and provide shortcuts to success. Based on their life experiences, a mentor's perspective can offer a fresh lens through which to view our challenges. Mentors are not just a source of practical advice; they also offer emotional support. Life can be challenging, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed sometimes. Having a mentor means having a trusted confidant who can provide encouragement and guidance during challenging moments. They motivate us to keep going when the going gets tough. They often have established connections and can introduce us to people in our field of interest or guide us in the right direction for further education and training. These connections can open doors that would have otherwise remained closed. Mentors can also nurture personal and professional growth and development. A mentor’s guidance is invaluable as it fosters self-reflection and aids in exploration of our strengths and weaknesses. They can challenge us to step out of our comfort zone, set higher goals, and continually strive for improvement. George is irreplaceable, but I have found a much younger mentor to whom I am aligning my star. He is a little more than half my age and rich in living life to the fullest. Mentors don't have to be older but rather wiser in areas where I am deficient. How about you? Do you have a designated mentor? Would your life be better if you did? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivations #bettereveryday #blindspots #toastmasters #mentor #mentorship #MentorshipMatters #emotionalintelligence #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #anxiety #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride

I love my work, and having the opportunity to bring clarity and relief to relationships is rewarding. As I listen to conversations, it is evident that we don't hear our voices in our conversations. I often suggest recording your conversations, especially when you find yourself getting anxious or emotional. Recordings can be an invasion of privacy if used in the wrong way. I always suggest that the person recording the conversation declares that they are recording it and will only use it for their personal growth and self-improvement. Using this recording in any other way violates your promise of using it only for your growth. Again, do not use this as information against another person. Listening to your own voice after can be one of your best opportunities for development. A word of caution here. Anyone aware that their conversation is being recorded will shift to make themselves look better. I know I do, but what’s wrong with that? Recordings offer multiple enhancements to a conversation. All who know they are being recorded will be more cautious and calculated. What’s wrong with that? After all, we are looking for positive exchanges in our conversations. I usually hear this when I make this suggestion. "Do you think I would say what I would normally say if I knew it is being recorded?" You can see how recording impacts what and how we communicate. “The most important thing in communication is to hear what is not being said.” Peter Drucker The idea of recording conversations to enhance relationships sounds counterintuitive. After all, shouldn't we focus on listening to others to build stronger connections? While active listening is undoubtedly crucial, there's a fascinating plot twist that can bring significant benefits to our relationships: the act of listening to ourselves. Recording conversations and listening only to ourselves provides a unique perspective that empowers self-awareness, the ability to identify patterns, and a chance for self-correction. Ultimately, this practice contributes to better communication, empathy, and conflict resolution, all essential elements for building healthier and more fulfilling relationships. How about you? Could you prosper by hearing your voice in your conversations? It works for me. Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #communication #CommunicationIsKey #communicationtips #communicationmatters #betterme #toastmasters #clearlakeareachamber #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation

My friend Ralph had been feeling victimized at work for quite some time, and every day seemed like a struggle, filled with frustrations and grievances. He constantly complained about his colleagues, manager, and company policies. Ralph's venting sessions had become a routine that offered momentary relief but did little to address the root causes of his dissatisfaction. One evening, as he met with his friend Robert, he couldn't help but launch another rant about work. Robert, a patient listener for months, finally spoke up. "Ralph, I understand you've been going through a tough time at work, but constantly complaining won't improve things. It's time to consider alternatives to feeling victimized." Ralph complained again, "But Robert, you don't know what it's like. It's the colleagues, the workload, and the company's policies. They're all against me." Robert gently leaned forward, "Ralph, I know you're going through a difficult period, but perhaps it's time to shift your perspective. Instead of feeling like a victim, what if you started exploring what you can do to change your situation? Complaining might provide temporary relief but won't lead to a lasting solution." Ralph rattled, "What can I do? It feels like everything is stacked against me." Robert smiled and pulled out a notebook. "First, let's list the things you can control at work. This might include your attitude, work ethic, and response to challenging situations." They began jotting down the list, and Ralph was surprised to realize that there were aspects within his control. Robert continued, "Now, let's brainstorm some alternatives to complaining. Maybe you can talk one-on-one with your manager about your concerns or look for ways to improve your working relationships with colleagues." Over time, Ralph began taking responsibility for his actions and attitudes at work. He initiated conversations with his manager to foster a more positive work environment. To his surprise, his perspective shifted, and his outlook improved. He no longer felt like a victim by focusing on taking a proactive approach. How about you? Do your circumstances victimize you, or are you responsible for your outcome? Watch for the blind spots. Like, share or comment. I appreciate your feedback and getting the message out. If you want to find out more about discovering your blind spots get your book today. Blind Spots in Relationships What I don't know I don't know about myself #blindspots #wednesday #bekind #WednesdayWisdom #wednesdayvibes #dailyhabits #betterme #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #TakeResponsibility #complaining #worklifebalance #blaming #bekind #mindset #toastmasters #bereal #ClearLakeChamber

Ralph and Robin have been married for 11 years. They have a fractured relationship. It has been eroding for the past three years. It has been going downhill so slightly that neither is aware of these circumstances. He comes in, and Robin mentions that he forgot to do something she asked him to do earlier. Ralph loses it and shouts, "You only look at what I don't do, not what I do. I am the one who makes this household run like it does. You are only critical of me! You don't look at what I ask you to do, but don't do it. I'm sick of this. I'm going to the pub!" It's a common human trait to withhold our grievances for far too long, only to unleash an outburst of pent-up emotions later. I call it, ‘two dollars’ worth of guff for a nickel’s worth of offense’, essentially buying into a conflict that could have been resolved much earlier and with less conflict. Wow let's look at this from two different perspectives. Ralph's anxiety reservoir is full and about to boil over. Going over the top happens when: He has unresolved issues with Robin. He is having difficulties at work. The children are creating issues. There are financial issues. Perhaps there is illness in the family. It can be attributed to any unresolved stressors or worry. When our anxiety reservoir is full, we cannot tolerate another stressors. It can show up as road rage or any other form of anger or frustration when it goes unchecked. Unless these items get dealt with, the anxiety reservoir stays high, and one minor issue can send it through the roof. Constant self-awareness and self-reflection can identify these stressors. The intent is to deal with stressors individually so that they are lessened. Harbored emotions must be talked about, or they will not dissipate. This can afford some vacancy in the anxiety reservoir so that we do not go over the top when other circumstances arise. How full is your anxiety reservoir? Does it need some conversation? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivations #bettereveryday #blindspots #betterme #toastmasters #clearlakeareachamber #worry #stress #emotionalintelligence #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #anxiety #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching

Here are a few examples. "I'll never forget how stunning you looked on our wedding day. You took my breath away." "I was telling our president about your presentation at the last team meeting, which was outstanding. You nailed the key points." "When I heard your name, I thought of your dedication to the Smith project this past summer and how you impressed us all. Your hard work was a significant factor in our success." "That romantic dinner you cooked for our anniversary last year was delicious. It was such a special night." "Your positive attitude always brightens the office. You're such a pleasure to work with, and it makes the days better." "I was telling your mom about your incredible sense of humor. You always know how to make me laugh, even on my worst days." "It has been six months now. Thank you, Dad, for being there during my legal battle. You are always there when I need you most. Your support during that challenging time meant the world to me." "Growing up with you, I've always admired your kindness and how you care for others. You're an amazing sister and friend." "I was talking to Randy yesterday, and he said you always know how to make our home warm and inviting. I love your decorating skills." "We talked about you at the reunion, how your smile lights up our home, and how your laughter brings so much joy into our lives." "The kids and I talked last night about what an incredible listener you are. We appreciate how you're always there to support us." Compliments are treasures that never lose their value with time. They are timeless in their ability to uplift spirits, foster lasting connections, and leave a warm imprint on someone's heart. A sincere compliment transcends generations, brightening someone's day, whether spoken today or decades from now. Compliments are a testament to our need for affirmation and recognition. They remind us that kindness knows no era and that the joy of making someone smile is a gift that stands the test of time. How are you doing with your compliments? Can you resurrect some and make someone's day? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #blindspots #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #mindset #bekind #growthmindset #emotionalmaturity #counseling #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation #complimentary #compliments #betterme #ComplimentChallenge #communication #mindsetiseverything #toastmasters #businesscoaching #successcoach #dailyinspiration

Have you ever found yourself dreaming about a future that could potentially enrich your life, but somehow, those dreams never materialize into action? I know I have, and it's this kind of thinking that can leave me playing it safe rather than playing to win. Fear is one of the most common reasons for not chasing my dreams. Fear of failure, fear of the unknown, or even fear of success can be daunting. I find it easy to settle into my familiar surroundings, and the predictability of my life. Taking a leap of faith can paralyze me and keep me from taking the necessary steps to make dreams a reality. Another factor that often keeps me from pursuing my dreams is the inertia of daily life. With my routine and knowing what to expect, I become accustomed to the rhythm of my day. Pushing myself out of my comfort zone can be challenging. It's easy to settle into the groove and convince myself I’m content. Sometimes, it's the perceived risk that holds me back. Are my dreams worth my potential sacrifices? Will I have to give up stability, financial security, or the approval of others? These concerns are valid, but are they reasonable? Are the gains worth the sacrifice, or do I maintain the status quo? So, what's the way forward? How do I break free from the routine, conquer my fears, and start living my dreams? It begins with self-awareness and introspection. Reflect on your desires, goals, and the life you envision. Write these down. Recognize the fear holding you back and acknowledge the comfort of your routine. I also have a support system that believes in my dreams. Sometimes, I dislike feeling pushed out of my comfort zone, and if I didn't have these folks in my life, I would daydream about my "what ifs?" I must remember that failure is a part of the journey and can be a steppingstone to success. I am finding that life is too short to remain trapped in the safety of the known. Thanks to all of you who support and encourage me. I couldn’t do it without you! Can you identify the dreams you tucked away in a safe place, that safe place that requires no attention? What's holding you back? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #blindspots #counselingworks #leadershipdevelopment #controlling #thinking #dailyinspiration #followyourdreams #dreambig #dreamscometrue #fear #nofear #fearfree #Fearless #attitude #attitudeiseverything #wednesday #bekind #WednesdayWisdom #wednesdayvibes #dailyhabits #betterme #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #GodsPlan #God #mindset #toastmasters #bereal

Do you ever wonder what it is like when the ones you love go to work, and you know they may be in harm's way? I am mainly thinking about our civil servants who rush into a scene when most of us are running away. 🚓 🚒 🚑 🔥These brave men and women, including firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and emergency medical technicians, play a pivotal role in maintaining the safety and well-being of our communities. It's all too easy to take them for granted. It is easy to overlook the sacrifices these people make for us as we go about our daily lives. They work long and unpredictable hours, putting themselves at risk to protect us from emergencies, accidents, natural disasters, and acts of violence. They witness traumatic events that most of us can’t and don’t want to imagine, and they do so with unwavering commitment and dedication. They are the reassuring voices on the other end of the line, the steady hands administering life-saving care and confronting dangerous circumstances to ensure our safety. They are the ones who provide comfort and support during our most vulnerable moments. It's incredibly easy to take their presence and actions for granted, assuming that help will always be there when we need it. We may not fully appreciate their sacrifices, the physical and emotional toll their work takes on them, and the daily challenges they face. First responders also face the burden of making split-second decisions that can have life-altering consequences. Their actions can mean the difference between life and death, and they carry the weight of that responsibility on their shoulders. It's essential to recognize that they, too, are human beings with families, dreams, and fears. Our first responders are the backbone of our society, and we must never forget the sacrifices they make for our safety. What is it like for their spouse and children? Do they rest easy like I do when they hear sirens, or do they worry their loved one is on a route to be in harm's way? How do you show your appreciation for these wonderful servants? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivation #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #firstresponders #police #firefighterlife #fireman #policeman #policelife #betterme #toastmasters #clearlakeareachamber #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching

Have you ever taken the time to observe the actions of children? They are uninhibited in their thinking and actions. Children possess an incredible gift—the boundless wonder of imagination. They can see things I take for granted. They can transform shapeless blobs into cozy houses and sticks with legs into magnificent horses in their early years. Yet, as they progress through school, particularly by the 2nd, 3rd, and definitely by the 4th grade, corrections, and comparisons start to creep in, stifling their creativity. Are we inadvertently teaching creativity out of our children? Perhaps my wonderful teacher friends can enlighten me about this. I see our culture, society, and families contribute to this blind spot. I suggest we encourage children to preserve their boundless imagination without judgment. While creative pursuits require refinement over time, it shouldn't erode their confidence. In fact, self-confidence often thrives alongside enhanced creativity, fostering a strong sense of self-worth. Imagination is the voice of daring. If there is anything godlike about God, it is that. He dared to imagine everything. Henry Miller I suggest breaking the conformity trap because this pressure can limit future innovation. History's creative giants—Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Edison, Steve Jobs, Marie Curie, Coco Chanel, Elon Musk, Ada Lovelace, and Walt Disney—were not conformists; they were pioneers who dared to dream differently. They were free to color outside the lines, think differently, and reshape their fields. I suggest nurturing the wonder of tomorrow's innovators, allowing them to explore their unique visions without fear of correction or conformity. Our children's untamed imaginations will fuel the future. As we celebrate the wonder of a child's imagination, let's ensure it remains a beacon of innovation, shaping a brighter world. By recognizing and exposing these blind spots in our educational systems and societal and cultural norms, we can cultivate a generation of thinkers who dare to dream differently, pushing the boundaries of what's possible. There is much difference between the status quo and imagination and creativity. How about you? Can you help pave the way for a more imaginative future that sparks the wonder of a child? Watch for the blind spots. Watch this TED video from Sir Kenneth Robinson on "Do Schools Kill Creativity?" I appreciate you reading, commenting, and sharing these posts. If you want to find out more about discovering your blind spots get your book today. Blind Spots in Relationships What I don't know I don't know about myself #blindspots #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #mindset #bekind #growthmindset #emotionalmaturity #counseling #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation #wonder #wonderofachild #children #ImaginationUnleashed #sirkennethrobinson #creativity #CreativityUnleashed #creativechild #communication #mindsetiseverything #toastmasters #businesscoaching #successcoach #dailyinspiration #betterme

Have you ever been trapped in a relationship where you're receiving what you don't want? Perhaps it's negativity, mistrust, or even indifference. In such situations, it's worth pondering the concept that "we often receive what we're giving." This reflection can be a powerful catalyst for positive change in our relationships. I often talk to couples who want something from each other, and unbeknownst to them, they are withholding the same thing. If I want love, respect, or affirmation, I must give it away. The idea of giving what we want to receive isn't a new concept, but it is a powerful and transformative principle. You have probably heard me talk about catching others doing things right and well as opposed to catching each other doing things bad and wrong. Look at relationship as a two-way street. What I put into it is often what I'll get out of it. If we're constantly giving negativity, criticism, or mistrust, it's no surprise that others might mirror it back to us. It’s not material things that I’m alluding to. It encompasses kindness, love, empathy, and understanding, the intangible elements that enrich my life. One of the most beautiful aspects of giving what I want to receive is the positive ripple effect it creates. It can make a relationship where negativity and cynicism find little foothold because we've cultivated a culture of positivity through our actions. Consider the power of a smile. When you offer a genuine smile, you often receive one in return. In that brief moment, you've given a dose of warmth and received it back, reinforcing the cycle of positivity. This simple act of giving what you want to receive can transform your day and the day of those around you. There is no guarantee that I will get back what I give. But it does put me in a greater frame of mind that causes my day to be better. Giving what I want to receive is a profound and transformative principle that enriches my life on many levels. How about you? Are you giving or holding back what you want to receive? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivation #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #give #giver #bettertogivethanreceive #giveitaway #betterme #bekind #mindsetiseverything #fightorflightresponse #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #choicesmatter #relationshiptips

What are you living for? Where are you going? Knowing the answer to these questions can provide a great sense of purpose. However, knowing how to get there is not always easy or evident. “The smallest of disciplines, practiced every day, start an incredible process that can change our lives forever.” Jim Rohn When I have a clear vision of where I want to go and what I want to achieve, breaking my journey down into smaller, manageable steps can be the key to accomplishing these goals, whether in my professional or personal life. This approach not only improves my results but also cultivates a sense of accomplishment and confidence. I talk about this in my book in the chapter called “What do you want?” In this chapter there is a *work sheet that allows you to identify goals or destinies that you would like to attain. It provides spaces to identify small changes of your actions or behaviors that over time can keep you focused on exactly what needs to be done and when. This becomes a roadmap that allows you to continue to stay focused by inputting data every day that gives a great picture of how you are doing with small changes that will produce big results. At the end of the week, I can assess my results to see how I did and what modifications I might want to change for next week. This worksheet allows me to focus each day on my destiny and not look at random periods during my journey and say, “I need to get started on this or I need to reorient my efforts.” This concept applies to work and home. It is great to have a balance of both as you spend precious time you will never get back. As I achieve these small goals, I accumulate a sense of accomplishment and confidence. Each milestone reached reinforces my belief in my abilities and the validity of my purpose. It's a self-perpetuating cycle of growth and self-assurance that propels me toward even greater achievements. The power of small improvements over time is not to be underestimated. How are you doing on your journey? Could small intentional steps help propel your desired destiny? Watch for the blind spots. *Download your worksheet: Weekly Display I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivation #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #jimrohn #jimrohnquotes #mindsetiseverything #smallstepsbigresults #bekind #smallstepsbigimpact #smallstepstobigchange #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching

In my fast-paced life, it's easy to become snared by the routines and responsibilities that define my daily existence. These routines keep me on track but also distract me from looking for new and wonderful things that I take for granted all around me. At times, my negative bias plagues my thinking. When I become attuned to the positive things surrounding me this shift in perspective enhances my overall sense of well-being, reduces stress, and improves my relationships. I often overlook the little treasures. Yet, if I borrow a page from the book of children who see the world with fresh, unjaded eyes, I can learn to find beauty and joy in the simplest moments. Children possess an uncanny ability to find wonder in the world around them. They marvel at caterpillars, raindrops on a windowpane, or refractions of light. It's as if every day is an adventure filled with opportunities to explore and appreciate. As an adult, I can regain some of this childlike wonder by focusing on the little things that I take for granted. I suggest a gratitude journal as a simple yet profound tool for cultivating this sense of appreciation. By setting aside a few minutes each day to jot down at least five things I am grateful for, I can shift my attention from the mundane routines to the extraordinary details that make life beautiful and fresh again. A journal encourages me to become more alert and notice the small gestures, kind words, or moments of serenity that might otherwise slip by unnoticed. Consider the smile of a stranger on your morning commute, the aroma of your favorite morning coffee, or the comforting embrace of a cool, air-conditioned home on a hot evening. These everyday gifts surround us, waiting to be acknowledged and cherished. When I train myself to focus on them, I find joy and contentment in the simplest pleasures. A gratitude journal can also be a powerful antidote that redirects my focus to find grand things. Some of the most hopeful people I know take the time to find and document their exciting discoveries during the day. How about you? Could you prosper by re-engaging your childlike enthusiasm and maintaining a gratitude journal? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate you reading, commenting, and sharing these posts. If you want to find out more about discovering your blind spots get your book today. Blind Spots in Relationships What I don't know I don't know about myself #blindspots #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #mindset #bekind #growthmindset #emotionalmaturity #counseling #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation #journaling #gratitude #gratitudejournal #gratitudeattitude #journalinspiration #communication #mindsetiseverything #toastmasters #businesscoaching #successcoach #dailyinspiration #betterme

For many years, I believed that being right was everything. I felt a personal victory. 🏁 I harbored an aversion to being wrong and did all I could to be the winner. It was an absolute win to prove my point of view and slay the opposition. It's human nature to want to be right. The feeling of being right can be intoxicating; it boosts our self-esteem and validates our knowledge. However, this very desire can sometimes lead to arrogance and a disregard for the perspectives of others, especially others that are important to me. How embarrassing this is to admit. What happens when that triumph inadvertently makes others feel wrong? It's a dilemma I've often grappled with—the desire to be right versus the empathy for those who end up on the wrong side of the conversation. 😮 Wow! When I need to be right, others get to be wrong. I despise being wrong; when I'm right, that is the only position left. 😖 Ouch! I needed help to uncover this. [Blind Spot] It's important to note that no one enjoys being wrong. It's a blow to the ego and our self-esteem. Yet, as much as I hate being wrong, there’s a delicate art to handling these kinds of situations. It's equally essential to acknowledge that nobody is right all the time. There’s room for error, even when I am convinced of my correctness, and admitting this to myself makes accepting an opposing viewpoint with grace easier. Instead of boasting in the moment, I remind myself that being right is fleeting and that humility can be an influential teacher. Shame played a huge part in my not wanting to appear wrong, so being right was my only option. The shame pit is a miserable place to hang out. My new focus on humility revolves around respecting others' points of view without trying to prove them wrong and refusing to allow other's opinion to put them in harm's way. 👉How about you? Do you need to be right at the expense of others? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your sharing this post, commenting and liking. Your feedback is valuable to me as we learn to explore and discover our blind spots. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships on Amazon and learn more about how to identify yours today. #blindspots #counselingworks #leadershipdevelopment #controlling #thinking #dailyinspiration #IamRight #youarewrong #righteousness #attitude #attitudeiseverything #wednesday #WednesdayWisdom #wednesdayvibes #dailyhabits #betterme #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #GodsPlan #God #mindset #toastmasters #bekind