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JERRY D CLARK BLOG

Poor communication is one of the most common and costly blind spots in relationships. Too often, I don’t see the habits that get in my own way. I may interrupt, tell “hero” stories to prove a point, talk too much, or listen only to respond instead of to understand. These behaviors may feel normal to me, yet they quietly push others away. Many won’t tell me I’ve been dismissive, self-centered, or offensive. They will withdraw. Ouch, that’s a blind spot. Being an effective co

What are blind spots in relationships?  They're the things I don't know I don't know  about myself, such as habits, reactions, or...

Life never stands still. Circumstances shift, people evolve, and every relationship I hold is touched by change. But growth, real,...

Comfort feels good, safe, familiar, and predictable. But stay there too long, and comfort quietly trades progress for ease. P.T. Barnum...

I’ve noticed that when things aren’t going well, my first impulse is to hope someone else changes so that I can stay the same. But that...

Emotions can weigh me down like heavy backpacks. Stress, anger, and worry accumulate until even minor challenges seem unbearable. That’s...

We’ve all heard the phrase, “laughter is the best medicine.” It may sound cliché, but science backs it up. Laughter lowers stress...