

Blind Spot: Do I Matter?
Most of us do not ask the question directly. Instead, we criticize, withdraw, become defensive, or try harder to be noticed. What looks like anger may actually be hurt. What sounds like complaining may be a plea for reassurance.
Jerry Clark
1 day ago1 min read


Blind Spot: Before You React
One of the healthiest habits a team can develop is learning to verify before reacting. It sounds simple, but it can prevent countless misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict. I have watched good teams lose momentum because someone reacted to an assumption instead of a fact.
Jerry Clark
4 days ago1 min read


Blind Spot: Writing the Ending Too Soon
Delayed texts. Silent rooms. Unreturned phone calls. We have all experienced them, and if we are not careful, we can create an entire story before we ever learn the truth. I have done it myself.
Jerry Clark
6 days ago1 min read


Blind Spot: Filling in the Blanks
One of the greatest lessons I have learned is that a gently curious question is far more powerful than an anxious assumption. Instead of deciding what someone meant, I have learned to ask, "Help me understand." Those simple words have prevented unnecessary hurt and strengthened some of my most important relationships.
Jerry Clark
Aug 31 min read

