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I recall that just before I was deployed in August of 1966, I was on a 30-day leave. I had orders to deploy, but I had not shared them with Mom and Dad. I wanted to protect them as long as possible. About a week before I was to deploy, I found an opportunity to tell my dad. I recall the dreadful look on his face and the helplessness in his voice. I remember him distinctively saying, "Jerry, we don't want no heroes; we just want you back." Wow, those words rang in my ears for the next 13 months. Then, many years after my return, during an intimate conversation, he shared, "I cried every night you were gone." This was as difficult as it was honest for this tough old man to admit. Mom and Dad were vigilant in staying abreast of the war events through news articles and television news. The experience of having a veteran return from war can be rewarding and challenging for family and friends. It's essential to understand that each situation is unique, and the impact on loved ones can vary significantly depending on the veteran's experiences and the support systems in place. The return of a veteran often brings a sense of relief and joy to family and friends. Knowing that their loved one has returned safely from a potentially dangerous situation can be a cause for celebration. While the reunion is filled with joy and happiness, it can also be challenging as everyone adjusts to a new normal. Both veterans and their families have changed during this time. Some veterans may experience physical or mental health challenges due to their exposures. Some may suffer from imposture syndrome. This can be difficult for family and friends to understand. When veterans return, family and friends might feel a sense of loss, because the returning military men and women they knew before deployment may be different upon their return. Our culture focuses on the returning veteran. Please don't forget their families. Helping veteran families recover from these experiences can be a Godsend. Conversing with these families can be very rewarding for them and you. Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymorning #bettereveryday #blindspots #toastmasters #mentor #mentorship #emotionalintelligence #mentalhealth #veteran #VeteransFamilies #suicide #veteransupport #VeteransDay #counseling #purpose #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #anxiety #ptsd #ptsdawareness #DepressionAndAnxietyAwareness #JoinTheRide

I remember it was January 1966. I left for San Diego, going to boot camp. I was full of patriotism, duty, and honor. "I, Jerry Clark, do solemnly swear that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States and the orders of the officers appointed over me, according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice. So help me God." What a commitment. I was so proud to have volunteered to serve my country. Entering the military was a journey that required determination, intention, and unwavering dedication. I was trained in physical fitness and military readiness. In addition to the physical and mental aspects, military life requires a solid allegiance to honor, and integrity. We were expected to adhere to a strict code of conduct and embrace core values such as loyalty, duty, respect, selfless service, honor, integrity, and personal courage. Going into the military is a transformative process marked by fidelity, sacrifice, and resolution. It's a journey that molds individuals into capable, resilient, and honorable defenders of our country. The training we received is second to none, and the ability to perform is amazing. The teaching and molding are so good that it becomes challenging to forget what we learned when we return to civilian life. Not all veterans have a difficult time transitioning into civilian life, yet there are ones who do struggle for years. The Veterans Administration reports that 18 to 21 veterans commit suicide every day, yes, every day. We have a veteran’s group that meets every Thursday and has for the past almost 11 years. It is a place where veterans can come and tell their stories and feel supported by ones who understand and appreciate their experiences. Too many veterans today suffer from homelessness, relationships, legal issues, drugs and alcohol, employment issues, transitioning through the VA maze for benefits, and many other difficult circumstances. It is so easy to celebrate sports and entertainment magnates and overlook the ones who signed up to give all they had for the freedom of our nation. Do you remember that freedom isn't free? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymorning #bettereveryday #blindspots #toastmasters #mentor #mentorship #emotionalintelligence #mentalhealth #veteran #veteranshelpingveterans #suicide #veteransupport #VeteransDay #counseling #purpose #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #anxiety #ptsd #ptsdawareness #DepressionAndAnxietyAwareness #jointheride

I often talk to folks about what they want. I hear answers like happiness, more money, a better job, better health, etc. I often find myself caught up in the same desires. Do I ever get enough of these things? The more I get, the more I want. What is one thing I waste more than anything? Time. Time is a precious commodity I possess. It's a limited resource, and once it's gone, I can never get it back. Unlike money, cars, houses, or even friends, time is finite and irreplaceable. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, where I focus on accumulating material possessions and pursuing various goals, the precious commodity of time goes ignored. I must remember that the ever-flowing hourglass constrains my desires. The sand doesn't stop. Considering the preciousness of time, I must also ask myself, "What do I want to accomplish?" "What do I want to do that I haven't yet done?" "How long am I going to live?" Am I purposefully pursuing my dreams and passions, striving to leave a positive impact on the world? Or am I just going through the motions, allowing my days to slip away? Time is a currency that can't be replenished, and as each day passes, it is one I never get back. Recognizing the value of time can be a powerful motivator for change and personal growth. It encourages me to prioritize what truly matters and to seize the day with enthusiasm. It is crucial to invest my time wisely in experiences, relationships, and pursuits that bring fulfillment and happiness. Time is my most precious asset, and it should be treated with the utmost respect. I am curious to know how much of it I have. By living purposefully and making the most of each moment, I create a life rich in memories, leaving a legacy of fulfillment and contentment. Time is a gift with an expiration date on it. How are you treating time? Do you have enough of it? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #communication #betterme #clearlakeareachamber #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #timing #timingiseverything #timeisprecious #outoftime #timeisagift #wastingtime #timepassesby #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #toastmasters #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching

Anger is a secondary emotion that doesn't exist without being fueled by negative primary emotions. This concept is fundamental in understanding the complex nature of anger and its effects on our emotional lives. When I experience anger, it is often triggered by deeper primary emotions, such as fear, hurt, frustration, or sadness. Exploring this idea can help me better manage my anger and address its root causes. When I feel threatened or unsafe, it is a natural response to protect myself. If I perceive a threat, anger can be a defense mechanism, signaling to others that I am not to be trifled with. This source of anger can result from a physical or an emotional threat. Hurt is another primary emotion that can give rise to anger. When someone's words or actions hurt me, anger often follows. This is because anger can serve as a shield, hiding my vulnerability and preventing further emotional harm. Rather than admit I'm hurt, I express my anger, attempting to regain control of the situation. Frustration escalates into anger when I can't achieve my goals because it provides an outlet for pent-up energy and aggravation. It is easier to express anger than admit feelings of powerlessness. Anger can emerge to cope with distressing feelings such as loss, disappointment, or a feeling of helplessness. One major negative event or an accumulation of minor negative events can spawn anger. This accumulation of small events I call 'the anger caldron'. It bubbles and seethes with unaddressed issues until the slightest negative event causes the caldron to explode, boiling over. Knowing that primary emotions fuel anger leads me to address the root causes and find healthier ways to manage them. This involves expressing primary emotions directly or seeking support from others. By doing so, I enhance my emotional intelligence, build better relationships, and lead a more fulfilling life. Anger is on a continuum ranging from mild irritation to intense rage, with various degrees in between. Trying to control anger without addressing its source is like putting out a fire by pouring water onto the flames. How are you doing with anger? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #blindspots #wednesday #bekind #WednesdayWisdom #wednesdayvibes #dailyhabits #betterme #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #bayharbourumc #bekind #mindset #toastmasters #bereal #bettertogether #emotions #emotionalintelligence #emotionalwellness #emotional #ClearLakeChamber #feelingsmatter #anger #angerissues #angermanagement #AngerProblems #angry #emotionsmatter #mindsetiseverything #toastmasters #businesscoaching #successcoach #dailyinspiration #betterme

Often, I find people I talk to are stuck in their roles in life. When I ask them what their purpose in life is, I get a variety of responses that are impacted by their current positions and responsibilities. This question has intrigued humanity for centuries and arose once survival was not the main priority. It's a profound question that elicits a wide array of responses, often rooted in one's personal beliefs, experiences, and perspectives. While there is no one-size-fits-all answer, here are some common themes I hear in response to the question, “What’s your purpose?” Serving God by following the teachings of Jesus and spreading His word. Christians are called to live a life of moral and ethical integrity, adhering to the values and principles outlined in the Bible, including avoiding sin, seeking forgiveness, and striving to live a righteous and holy life. Leaving a legacy that makes the world a better place Finding joy and happiness Teaching and education Creating innovation in technology Making more money Discovering medicine for healing Creating peace around them Being a mentor to others, being their example in life Having great families that train their children to live safe and prosperous, moral, and ethical lives, teaching them to carry on their legacy. Another common perspective is making a positive impact on the lives of others. Achieving this through acts of kindness, charity, mentorship, or service to one's community and the world. We must know our purpose to know we are doing what we must do. Can you write down your purpose in life? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood#mondaythoughts #mondaymotivations #bettereveryday #blindspots #toastmasters #mentor #mentorship #MentorshipMatters #emotionalintelligence #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #purpose #whatsyourpurpose #purposefulliving #purposedriven #selfimprovement#mindsetmatters #bekind #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride

Too many times, I hear these words, "I've said it a million times, but no one is listening, and there is no change." These words are usually muttered in frustration, a cry for help, a plea for understanding, and a desire to connect. It is truly exasperating to experience the feeling of desperately trying to convey a message only to have it seemingly fall on deaf ears. I call it the unheard clanging gong. On the other side of the conversation, I hear, "They are always griping and complaining and never give me a break." Wow, both parties are frustrated and upset with the other, and the conversation becomes noisy and silent simultaneously. The feeling of being unheard can be an overwhelmingly isolated experience. Watching as others go about their lives, seemingly unaware of the importance of the message attempting to be delivered, is like shouting in a crowded room, only to be met with chilly stares. As time goes on, the unheard clanging gong becomes disheartened and disenchanted. They begin to withdraw, feeling ignored, unimportant, and abandoned. The weight of their unheard words presses down, making them feel like they are carrying an invisible burden. The experience of nagging and complaining sets up the justification for retreat and disengagement. Then, the inevitable happens. The person who didn't hear the message is left surprised and bewildered when they find themselves alone or facing an unexpected turn of events. "Why didn't you tell me?" they ask, their confusion mirroring the unanswered cries of the unheard clanging gong. It is the duty of the sender of the message to get the message across. Important information should be communicated through various mediums, such as speaking, writing, texting, or leaving a voicemail. If these attempts fail, consider involving another to help convey the message. The unheard clanging gong reminds the listener of the importance of active listening and empathy in relational interactions. Hearing quiet voices and appreciating the significance of the messages hidden beneath the surface is essential in healthy relationships. Improving communication through intentional speaking and active listening can help prevent frustration for the speaker and abrupt surprises for the listener. How about you? Is there griping and complaining or an unheard clanging gong in your relationship? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #communication #CommunicationIsKey #communicationtips #communicationmatters #betterme #toastmasters #clearlakeareachamber #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching

On June 26th, I posted an article about my veteran friend Anthony. He is an amazing man who spent three tours in Iraq and Afghanistan as a U.S. Marine who gave up everything that may have resembled a normal life for those ten years of active duty. He came back home, but not to the home that most of us have tried to build; it has been filled with challenge after challenge. Suffering from PTSD and its effects on his psyche cost him a normal return to society. Anthony struggled to hold his family together. Always serving and giving back, he took in a long-time homeless friend who was going blind from cataracts while negotiating his way through the well-meaning but sometimes less-than-efficient Veterans Administration. In the meantime, Anthony's home that housed his family became dilapidated and unlivable. That's where good news finally intervened and stopped the downward spiral of depression that weighed on his shoulders. Hearing something that raises our spirits and re-establishes our faith in human kindness is refreshing. Through the Veterans Housing Rehabilitation and Modification Program, SBP addresses this problem by modifying or rehabilitating eligible veterans' primary residences at no cost. Anthony was informed of SBP and was approved for a $40,000 grant housing-based program to restore his residence to livable condition. He also received a promise from the Bay Harbor Methodist Church in League City to provide additional assistance to help cover other needs. In addition, many of you donated funds to help him rebuild. These funds allowed him to reestablish electricity in his home. I often wonder how many dedicated veterans are going through something similar to my friend. Thanks to so many wonderful people who have stepped up and supported Anthony. This combat veteran has served to protect us at home and abroad, and now his family can live in appropriate housing, lessening the strain upon his broad shoulders. Thanks, are never enough for all of you who support one of the most generous men I know. I love you, Anthony, you are my hero, and I am so proud to see you receive some of what you have given. Sometimes, we have things going on in our backyard, and we don't even know it. Watch for the blind spots. More information/updates: Facebook: Anthony walk through damage house: https://youtu.be/KIL6jolcwGI?si=ONKbTag2lEtrMV-D Original gofundme.com with updates: https://www.gofundme.com/f/army-veteran-house-repairs I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #blindspots #wednesday #bekind #WednesdayWisdom #wednesdayvibes #dailyhabits #betterme #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #myhero #myheroes #heroes #herosjourney #HeroesAmongUs #veteran #veteransupport #gofundme #gofundmecampaign #giveback #payitforward #veteranshelpingveterans #veterans #bayharbourumc #blaming #bekind #mindset #toastmasters #bereal #ClearLakeChamber #bettertogether

George was my mentor from 1996 until he passed away in December 2020. He was one of the most amazing men I have ever known. He was a Korean War veteran and was associated with Marriage and Family Therapy for over 55 years. George was a fantastic family man. His teaching and coaching about life and therapy were priceless. He was fair, honest, direct, knowledgeable, challenging, and kind. My life was rich because I had George as my friend and mentor. I could always depend on him for course correction or encouragement. Mentors are like guiding stars, offering direction, support, and wisdom to help us reach our destinations. A primary advantage of having a mentor is the wealth of experience and knowledge they bring to the table. They have been through ups and downs and overcome hurdles. Their insights are invaluable; they can steer us from common pitfalls and provide shortcuts to success. Based on their life experiences, a mentor's perspective can offer a fresh lens through which to view our challenges. Mentors are not just a source of practical advice; they also offer emotional support. Life can be challenging, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed sometimes. Having a mentor means having a trusted confidant who can provide encouragement and guidance during challenging moments. They motivate us to keep going when the going gets tough. They often have established connections and can introduce us to people in our field of interest or guide us in the right direction for further education and training. These connections can open doors that would have otherwise remained closed. Mentors can also nurture personal and professional growth and development. A mentor’s guidance is invaluable as it fosters self-reflection and aids in exploration of our strengths and weaknesses. They can challenge us to step out of our comfort zone, set higher goals, and continually strive for improvement. George is irreplaceable, but I have found a much younger mentor to whom I am aligning my star. He is a little more than half my age and rich in living life to the fullest. Mentors don't have to be older but rather wiser in areas where I am deficient. How about you? Do you have a designated mentor? Would your life be better if you did? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivations #bettereveryday #blindspots #toastmasters #mentor #mentorship #MentorshipMatters #emotionalintelligence #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #anxiety #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride

I love my work, and having the opportunity to bring clarity and relief to relationships is rewarding. As I listen to conversations, it is evident that we don't hear our voices in our conversations. I often suggest recording your conversations, especially when you find yourself getting anxious or emotional. Recordings can be an invasion of privacy if used in the wrong way. I always suggest that the person recording the conversation declares that they are recording it and will only use it for their personal growth and self-improvement. Using this recording in any other way violates your promise of using it only for your growth. Again, do not use this as information against another person. Listening to your own voice after can be one of your best opportunities for development. A word of caution here. Anyone aware that their conversation is being recorded will shift to make themselves look better. I know I do, but what’s wrong with that? Recordings offer multiple enhancements to a conversation. All who know they are being recorded will be more cautious and calculated. What’s wrong with that? After all, we are looking for positive exchanges in our conversations. I usually hear this when I make this suggestion. "Do you think I would say what I would normally say if I knew it is being recorded?" You can see how recording impacts what and how we communicate. “The most important thing in communication is to hear what is not being said.” Peter Drucker The idea of recording conversations to enhance relationships sounds counterintuitive. After all, shouldn't we focus on listening to others to build stronger connections? While active listening is undoubtedly crucial, there's a fascinating plot twist that can bring significant benefits to our relationships: the act of listening to ourselves. Recording conversations and listening only to ourselves provides a unique perspective that empowers self-awareness, the ability to identify patterns, and a chance for self-correction. Ultimately, this practice contributes to better communication, empathy, and conflict resolution, all essential elements for building healthier and more fulfilling relationships. How about you? Could you prosper by hearing your voice in your conversations? It works for me. Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #betterme #bettereveryday #blindspots #communication #CommunicationIsKey #communicationtips #communicationmatters #betterme #toastmasters #clearlakeareachamber #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation

My friend Ralph had been feeling victimized at work for quite some time, and every day seemed like a struggle, filled with frustrations and grievances. He constantly complained about his colleagues, manager, and company policies. Ralph's venting sessions had become a routine that offered momentary relief but did little to address the root causes of his dissatisfaction. One evening, as he met with his friend Robert, he couldn't help but launch another rant about work. Robert, a patient listener for months, finally spoke up. "Ralph, I understand you've been going through a tough time at work, but constantly complaining won't improve things. It's time to consider alternatives to feeling victimized." Ralph complained again, "But Robert, you don't know what it's like. It's the colleagues, the workload, and the company's policies. They're all against me." Robert gently leaned forward, "Ralph, I know you're going through a difficult period, but perhaps it's time to shift your perspective. Instead of feeling like a victim, what if you started exploring what you can do to change your situation? Complaining might provide temporary relief but won't lead to a lasting solution." Ralph rattled, "What can I do? It feels like everything is stacked against me." Robert smiled and pulled out a notebook. "First, let's list the things you can control at work. This might include your attitude, work ethic, and response to challenging situations." They began jotting down the list, and Ralph was surprised to realize that there were aspects within his control. Robert continued, "Now, let's brainstorm some alternatives to complaining. Maybe you can talk one-on-one with your manager about your concerns or look for ways to improve your working relationships with colleagues." Over time, Ralph began taking responsibility for his actions and attitudes at work. He initiated conversations with his manager to foster a more positive work environment. To his surprise, his perspective shifted, and his outlook improved. He no longer felt like a victim by focusing on taking a proactive approach. How about you? Do your circumstances victimize you, or are you responsible for your outcome? Watch for the blind spots. Like, share or comment. I appreciate your feedback and getting the message out. If you want to find out more about discovering your blind spots get your book today. Blind Spots in Relationships What I don't know I don't know about myself #blindspots #wednesday #bekind #WednesdayWisdom #wednesdayvibes #dailyhabits #betterme #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #TakeResponsibility #complaining #worklifebalance #blaming #bekind #mindset #toastmasters #bereal #ClearLakeChamber

Ralph and Robin have been married for 11 years. They have a fractured relationship. It has been eroding for the past three years. It has been going downhill so slightly that neither is aware of these circumstances. He comes in, and Robin mentions that he forgot to do something she asked him to do earlier. Ralph loses it and shouts, "You only look at what I don't do, not what I do. I am the one who makes this household run like it does. You are only critical of me! You don't look at what I ask you to do, but don't do it. I'm sick of this. I'm going to the pub!" It's a common human trait to withhold our grievances for far too long, only to unleash an outburst of pent-up emotions later. I call it, ‘two dollars’ worth of guff for a nickel’s worth of offense’, essentially buying into a conflict that could have been resolved much earlier and with less conflict. Wow let's look at this from two different perspectives. Ralph's anxiety reservoir is full and about to boil over. Going over the top happens when: He has unresolved issues with Robin. He is having difficulties at work. The children are creating issues. There are financial issues. Perhaps there is illness in the family. It can be attributed to any unresolved stressors or worry. When our anxiety reservoir is full, we cannot tolerate another stressors. It can show up as road rage or any other form of anger or frustration when it goes unchecked. Unless these items get dealt with, the anxiety reservoir stays high, and one minor issue can send it through the roof. Constant self-awareness and self-reflection can identify these stressors. The intent is to deal with stressors individually so that they are lessened. Harbored emotions must be talked about, or they will not dissipate. This can afford some vacancy in the anxiety reservoir so that we do not go over the top when other circumstances arise. How full is your anxiety reservoir? Does it need some conversation? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #mondaymood #mondaythoughts #mondaymotivations #bettereveryday #blindspots #betterme #toastmasters #clearlakeareachamber #worry #stress #emotionalintelligence #successcoach #successmindset #counseling #selfimprovement #mindsetmatters #bekind #anxiety #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #jointheride #leadershipcoaching

Here are a few examples. "I'll never forget how stunning you looked on our wedding day. You took my breath away." "I was telling our president about your presentation at the last team meeting, which was outstanding. You nailed the key points." "When I heard your name, I thought of your dedication to the Smith project this past summer and how you impressed us all. Your hard work was a significant factor in our success." "That romantic dinner you cooked for our anniversary last year was delicious. It was such a special night." "Your positive attitude always brightens the office. You're such a pleasure to work with, and it makes the days better." "I was telling your mom about your incredible sense of humor. You always know how to make me laugh, even on my worst days." "It has been six months now. Thank you, Dad, for being there during my legal battle. You are always there when I need you most. Your support during that challenging time meant the world to me." "Growing up with you, I've always admired your kindness and how you care for others. You're an amazing sister and friend." "I was talking to Randy yesterday, and he said you always know how to make our home warm and inviting. I love your decorating skills." "We talked about you at the reunion, how your smile lights up our home, and how your laughter brings so much joy into our lives." "The kids and I talked last night about what an incredible listener you are. We appreciate how you're always there to support us." Compliments are treasures that never lose their value with time. They are timeless in their ability to uplift spirits, foster lasting connections, and leave a warm imprint on someone's heart. A sincere compliment transcends generations, brightening someone's day, whether spoken today or decades from now. Compliments are a testament to our need for affirmation and recognition. They remind us that kindness knows no era and that the joy of making someone smile is a gift that stands the test of time. How are you doing with your compliments? Can you resurrect some and make someone's day? Watch for the blind spots. I appreciate your feedback, please like, share or comment. Get your copy of Blind Spots in Relationships. Discover the hidden behavior that can be holding you back from the relationships you desire. #blindspots #mindsetmatters #bettereveryday #mindset #bekind #growthmindset #emotionalmaturity #counseling #fridayvibes #friday #fridaymotivation #complimentary #compliments #betterme #ComplimentChallenge #communication #mindsetiseverything #toastmasters #businesscoaching #successcoach #dailyinspiration